From the Kids @ Glenn archive: circa 2019:
If we could all be in touch with our feelings as authentically as a two-year-old, we'd probably have healthier grieving. (Though it may make daily life a bit more awkward when we throw ourselves on the ground in a fit if a Mexican restaurant doesn't serve a hamburger. Hypothetically.)
During the last few months, anytime our little guy sees anything that reminds of him of his great-grandfather who died this summer (for example, an American flag like he saw at the funeral), he cocks his head to the side and sweetly says, "Papa. Died. Saaaaad." Complete with exaggerated sad face.
This habit has been both a bittersweet reminder of our grief and a comic relief when he acknowledges Papa at the most random times...like seeing a toy pirate flag! But opening up the conversation about death and grief has been an opportunity for us with his big sister who has LOTS of questions of the whys and how’s of death.
And as we prepare for the fun and festivities of Halloween this week, this is another opportunity for each of our families to explain how Halloween is really the 'een (eve) of Hallows' (saints') day. Historically, All Saints' Day is the day we remember and honor all those who have died before us, and celebrate each life as a saint for the ways they lived with love and faithfulness.
Of course, the Christian, secular, and sordid histories intertwine with traditions of dressing up like scary monsters and ghosts to scare away the "mean" spirits and dressing up like fun and silly characters to poke fun of those who take the holiday (HOLY-day) too seriously.
But however you and your family celebrate Halloween, I hope you'll be sure to talk about All Hallows' (Saints), too, and join us in worship this coming Sunday when we honor and remember the remarkable saints of Glenn Church we have sadly said goodbye (for now) to this year.
And just like my little guy reminds us, it's okay if this makes you saaaaad, as you'll likely see a few tears from this preacher on Sunday, too.
Grace and Peace,
Susan,
Nota Bene from 2024: Don't forget to "fall back" one hour this Saturday night as Daylight Savings Time ends. Speaking of silly traditions.
Please enjoy some of our favorite photos from the 2024 Trunk or Treat
